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MA advocates join international ‘Slutwalk’ movement with Boston march

  •  Natalie Olbrych, center, and Toni Halberg, right, both of Brownsville, Vt., participate in the SlutWalk in Boston, Mass., Saturday, May 7, 2011, which organizers described as a demonstration against those who blame the victims of sex crimes. The walk was held in response to a Toronto police officer who said women shouldn’t dress like “sluts” if they wanted to avoid being raped. (AP Photo/Josh Reynolds) (JOSH REYNOLDS, AP / May 7, 2011)

    RUSSELL CONTRERAS Associated Press9:21 p.m. CDT, May 7, 2011

    BOSTON (AP) — Chanting “We love sluts!” and holding signs like “Jesus loves sluts,” approximately 2,000 protesters marched Saturday around the Boston Common as the city officially became the latest to join an international series of protests known as “SlutWalks.”

    The protest movement, sparked by a Toronto police officer’s remark that women could avoid being raped by not dressing like “sluts,” came to Boston after advocates saw similar events — largely organized through Facebook and Twitter — pop up in Canada, England and other parts of the U.S.

    “We wanted to do something to show our support,” said Siobhan Connors, 20, of Lynn, Mass., a Boston organizer. “We originally planned for a small event and expected about 30 people.”

    But by the time the march began Saturday, about 2,000 people — some dressed in lingerie with the words “slut” written across their stomachs — were in attendance.

    In January, a Toronto police officer told a group of university students that women should avoid dressing like “sluts” to avoid being raped. He later apologized. The officer who made the comments, Constable Michael Sanguinetti, was disciplined but remained on duty, said Toronto police spokesman Mark Pugash.

    However, advocates in Toronto held a “SlutWalk” to protest the officer’s remarks and to highlight what they saw as problems in blaming sexual assault victims. Since then, SlutWalks, organized mainly through social media, have been held in Dallas, Asheville, N.C., and Ottawa, Ontario. Organizers say the events also were held to bring attention to “slut-shaming,” or shaming women for being sexual, and the treatment of sexual assault victims.

    “I had watched the Toronto walk happen from afar,” said Jaclyn Friedman, author of “Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape” and resident of Medford, Mass. “When I heard it was coming to Boston I just emailed the organizers and said, ‘How can I help?'”

    Organizers invited Friedman to speak.

    Vanessa White, 33, of Somerville, Mass., also heard about the event through Facebook and showed up for the Boston event dressed in a pink jacket and fishnet stockings.

    “For me … it’s an attempt to reclaim the word ‘slut’ itself,” said White. “Because once you reclaim it, you take the power away from it.”

    Before the march, a small group of counter protesters, wearing colorful cowboy hats with feathers and holding a boom box that played hip-hop and 1970s funk, walked around the gathering. Dubbed the “PimpWalk,” organizer Samuel Bilowski, 23, of Salem, N.H., said his group wanted to “get some numbers” and talk to attractive women.

    “This is a pathetic attempt at a joke,” admitted Bilowski. “We’re just having fun.”

    Still, White and a group of other advocates surrounded Bilowski and his group and yelled the word “slut” repeatedly. Others verbally attacked Bilowski for glorifying violence against women.

    Bilowski’s group eventually joined the SlutWalk march around the Common.

    Following Boston, SlutWalk marches are planned in cities including Seattle; New York; Chicago; Philadelphia; Reno, Nev.; and Austin, Texas.

    Chicago’s turn comes on June 4, 2011 from 12 to 3pm.

    Want everything on that pizza?

    Lake County pizza parlors also delivered cocaine, police say 19 charged in bust of alleged drug ring

    By Ruth Fuller, Special to the Tribune

    7:52 p.m. CDT, May 6, 2011

    Customers in the know could get something extra when they placed delivery orders at two Lake County pizza parlors: cocaine, authorities contend.

    Charges against 19 people were announced Friday in a far-reaching bust of an alleged cocaine ring that authorities said at times operated out of two well-known pizza parlors and used delivery vehicles to distribute the drugs.

    Among those charged with drug conspiracy in the sweep were brothers Elias, Jack and Kostatino “Gus” Papandreou, who own and operate Jack’s Pizza and Burgers restaurants in Waukegan and Grayslake and who authorities said have prior drug-related convictions.

    “This criminal element has long been a thorn in the side of the Waukegan Police Department,” police Chief Daniel Greathouse said in a news release, adding that his department, the Drug Enforcement Administration and county prosecutors targeted “mid- to upper-level drug dealers who have flaunted their illicit activities for years.”

    Police said they “were able to infiltrate this guarded crew” and that, during the operation, almost 5 pounds of cocaine, along with smaller amounts of Vicodin and Ecstasy, were distributed throughout Lake County with a total street value of about $160,000.

    The Papandreou brothers –- Elias, 27, and Kostatino, 34, both of Wadsworth, and Jack, 33, who officials said is in federal custody on other charges –- were each indicted on a drug conspiracy charge, as were 16 other people, most from Lake County, police said. Bail was set at $500,000 for each of the 19 people indicted, authorities said.

    All 19 either sold, delivered or bought the drugs, Waukegan police Cmdr. Gabriel Guzman said. Police said customers in on the scheme could even order drugs along with food.

    David Flores, who is married to Martha Papandreou, the sister of the alleged ringleaders, said he believes the charges against his brothers-in-law amount to little more than a “personal vendetta” by the Waukegan police.

    “The allegations of selling drugs out of the restaurant are incorrect,” Flores said. “My father-in-law would kill these kids. He would be like, ‘You are not going to ruin my business.'”

    and once again,  Goddess is in the wrong place at the wrong time…

    15 cents off gas

    Exxon/Mobil has a new promo going where you can save .15/gallon of gas for 60 days.  Sign up for their Speedpass program and get either a car tag or key tag in the mail.  Log into My Account to activate your device(s), and click on the “Submit” button where the promotional offer is displayed on your “My Profile” page.

    The amount of 15¢ per gallon will be credited as one lump sum, placed on your credit/debit card statement when you reach 100 gallons or after 60 days, whichever comes first.  You have until 6/30/2011 to register for this offer and 60 days after registration to save 15¢ per gallon.

    Splenda deal – Buy Now!

    Christina sent me a fantastic picture of the great deals you can score at warehouse clubs.  At least this explains who diverted all our Splenda…

    CNN reports

    that U.S. officials say Osama bin Laden is dead.  Apparently he was killed by a US bomb last week, but the news was withheld pending positive DNA identification.  The President is due to give a speech shortly.   I wonder who gets the reward?

    Free tv

    For those of you who follow this site on a regular basis, you’ll remember that we cut our satellite in November, 2010.  Since I don’t watch tv, it was easy for me, but PITA and husband were the addicts.  With a Netflix subscription (upgraded to blu-ray), they watch all kinds of crap (and get one dvd every other day) for a low monthly rate.  Wow, sounds like an advertisement, here, doesn’t it?

    Since the only thing I want to watch has been the TLC Extreme Couponing shows, imagine how thrilled I was to find this site:  www.letmewatchthis.ch/.  I registered (free) and was able to waste and watch the episodes I’ve missed (including the Jailme Kirlew one – oooooh, girl, imo that is one nasty-looking skank).  So now I’m set and hope to enjoy all the cable shows before I go to prison.  Care to join me?

    More Ask E Jean

    Dear E. Jean : My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving me. We continue to see each other as friends and I’m still invited to her house. The other night I attended a small dinner party there with her, her new boyfriend, and her mother, who is single. After dinner, my ex and her boyfriend left for their date. I offered to stay and help clean up, and after it was over, her mother thanked me with a passionate kiss. I’d really like to have sex with her. Do you think there’s a chance, given the difference in our ages (I’m 18) and the fact that I was her daughter’s boyfriend?

    —Willing

    Willing, my man: Auntie Eeee thinks there’s a 99.9 percent chance that many older women (i.e., over 30) would like to take advantage of your adolescent growth spurt, but your ex-girlfriend’s mother is not mature enough to have sex yet, so you must refrain. It would destroy your friendship with your ex, probably poison the love between the mother and her daughter, and leave the vigorous young girls in your neighborhood without help lath-ering their lemon squeezers. Meanwhile, stay away from that house! Going for a dip in a shark tank would be safer for a lad.

    P.S. You may take the mother a muffin basket when you’re 25.

     

    Goddess asks:  Where on Earth are these people living?  And why aren’t I ever invited to dinner parties like this?

    Splenda coupons

    After the crazy prices I saw on eBay and the lack of coupons on Dede, I was hurting…hurting I tells ya.  So imagine how happy I was to see a bunch of them back up on Dede.  They had them – they didn’t – they had them – they didn’t.  I think she now has a large supply:  I was able to pick up 60 coupons from Coupondede for.25 each plus shipping (nominal) for a total of $16.14.  For this little bit of upfront cash I will earn back $90 in RRs.  How?  Well, I’ve taken the clever idea from one of you to run sets of two for $3 instead of the three for $4.  This nets me an extra $10 in RRs.

    Aquafresh update

    Theresa, the BA at our newest Wags in Montgomery (30th and 34th) sent a frantic email to me very early this am – and I forgot to check my email account until now … bad, bad, Goddess.  sorry Theresa…

    Anyway, her original order was mega-huge (shudder to give you the exact number) but she got scared over the sheer volume of potential pumps of toothpaste and reduced it considerably (this was her first deal, after all).  Warehouse not only didn’t decrease the original order, it appears that they may have added instead of subtracted.  So now she is stuck with mega order plus, which is making her nervous.  So those wanting any type of quantity, head on over starting tomorrow.  The nice thing about this Aquafresh deal is that it’s a straight one, no RRs, limits, etc.  Pull up to the register with your cart, hand over the mfr coupons and the IVC booklet and run with it.  I would suggest doing this in manageable groups, so that if it’s necessary to break for other customers you won’t get screwed uip.

     

    Applebee’s very happy meals – Update

    Well, you just knew this was coming, didn’t you?  Let’s see … incident happened Friday evening and they didn’t file the lawsuit until Tuesday.  Why the wait?  Oh, right, courts are closed on the weekend. duh

    Taylor Dill-Reese and Dominic Wilson, the parents of 15-month-old Dominic Lacey Wilson, filed the lawsuit late Tuesday in Oakland County, where the restaurant is located.

    The suit claims the two suffered emotional distress as a result of the incident and seeks unspecified monetary damages from the company for medical bills and non-economic losses.

    CHICAGO (Reuters) – The company that owns the Applebee’s restaurant chain said on Monday it was immediately retraining its workers nationwide after a server at a suburban Detroit location accidentally served alcohol to a toddler.

    The company, California-based DineEquity Inc, said it would also change the way it serves juice to youngsters to eliminate the chance of any mixups that could result in any more toddlers receiving mixed drinks.

    On Friday, Taylor Dill-Reese went to an Applebee’s in Madison Heights, Michigan, where — among other things — she ordered her 15-month-old son Dominick an apple juice.

    What the little boy apparently got instead was a margarita. His mom told WDIV-TV that she only realized something was wrong when Dominick “kind of laid his head on the table and dozed off a little bit and woke up and got real happy.”

    The little boy reportedly began hailing strangers, too.

    This next selection, with slightly more info, is from the NY Daily News.

    Fifteen-month-old Dominic Dill-Reese was served a drink as part of the kids meal that his mother ordered. Dominic’s mom, Taylor Dill-Reese says her son started acting strangely after drinking what she thought was apple juice. So, she tasted it and discovered the cup contained an alcoholic margarita mix.

    The NY Daily News reports that the mother informed the manager who offered little help:

    “The manager came up to me and he smelled it and he was like, ‘I am so sorry ma’am, I just don’t know what to do,’” said Dill-Reese.

    The family called the police and the toddler started acting funny.  They rushed him to the hospital where they discovered Dominic’s blood alcohol content registered .10, over the legal limit for an adult driver.

    “Nobody at the table ordered alcoholic drinks,” said Dill-Reese. “So, he definitely shouldn’t have received one.”  While Dominic is OK now, doctors say he still needs to be carefully watched.

    The margarita was served in a sippy cup so the person pouring it had to have known it was for a child.

    Applebee’s released a statement on Monday saying it was relieved that Dominick was “not seriously injured as a result of accidentally receiving the wrong beverage” and apologizing to his family “for the stress and worry this caused them.”

    It said it would begin to serve apple juice to children only from single-serve containers at the table and would “retrain all severs on our beverage pouring policy, emphasizing that non-alcoholic and alcoholic beverages must be stored in completely separate and identified containers.”

    Goddess says:  Next time you’re drinking at Applebee’s, order from the kid’s menu.  It’s a way cheaper buzz…